All this while we are wondering what kind person is us. Same goes to me, sometimes I just wonder am I really me or there is other person hiding inside me who actually help me doing all the decision and reaction. From my own perspective, human actually reacts based on what kind situation they are facing at current time. However reaction might be different based on reaction that he/she had seen from other person all this while. To make it easy child usually growing up seeing how their parents live their life and MAYBE he/she will have same reaction or attitude just like his/her parents. Im not saying if parents not good at making decision or react to situation their kids also will be the same however, there is possibility.
Today I'll be describing one type of person called extrovert. This kind of people always been describe as talkative, sociable, action-oriented, enthusiastic, friendly, and out-going person on the positive side. However, on the negative side people usually describe them as attention seeker, easily attracted, and unable to spend time alone. I didn't say that if you are extrovert you didn't have any of introvert characteristic at all, some of us might have both of it like 50% of introvert and 50% of extrovert. So let's see if you have some of extrovert characteristic.
YOU LOVE TO TALK
You might have no interest talking with people you know but have high interest in talking with strangers through social media. That will be one of characteristic that people might not realize sometimes. On the other hands, you might love to meet new people by going to new places. Usually people who love to travel will have this characteristic but when they comeback they will be the most silent people we know. However, introvert people tend to think so much before they talk which lead to a boring conversation and Im not saying extrovert doesn't think before they talk. They just more casual when it comes to talk.
YOU LOVE SOCIALIZE
Since extrovert love to talk a lot, we can't deny that they love to socialize with other as sitting alone make them feel so bored and lazy. Usually extrovert will have a big circle of friends or colleagues and they will always spend time chilling together because they love been surrounded with their favorite person. So for extrovert spending time alone will definitely not their thing. If you have extrovert friends, you are lucky because they will always have plan for you on weekend to make sure you are not sitting there alone and lazy. If you have one please appreciate them.
YOU LIKE TO SOLVE PROBLEM BY ASKING ADVISE / DISCUSS
If you are someone like this, yes you are extrovert. Extrovert person do not like to be moody and angry. They just wanted to be happy and do whatever they like. However, when they are facing problem, they usually looking for some friends to actually discuss and ask for advise. If you are facing problem with them, no worries because extrovert will come and talk about it with you and make sure everything is done and back to normal again. Sometimes they also can be the middle person who settle your problem.
YOU ARE FRIENDLY AND APPROACHABLE
Usually extrovert person will be the one who do introduction for first meet up or maybe start new conversation that can lead to friendship. No worries if you are kind of shy person, be friend with extrovert and all you problem results of being shy will solved immediately. One more thing, if you go travel, please bring your extrovert friend so they can help you when thing didn't turn out as you planned by seeking help from local people. You also will have opportunity to meet new friends by having them beside you all the time.
YOU ARE OPEN AND PEOPLE EASILY TO GET TO KNOW YOU
Yes, this will be the best part of it. Extrovert will easily get new friends and make a new relationship as people will find they are very attractive because they are very open. This make people feel so comfortable with them. For a guy, being extrovert its like an extra value for them as if they being shy they unable to flirt girl they like. So can be said extrovert is actually credit for a guy but most of girl like introvert guy more :)
So that's few characteristic of extrovert person, but like I said people react based on condition and situation and most of us might not really extrovert or introvert we might be both. :)
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